I've been doing much some soul searching as per usual and much reflection on life as I know it. One thing is for sure I absolutely cannot do anything without my heavenly father... Now that I've gotten that out the way. I was thinking about relationships and how we as humans are interacting with each other. One thing I believe in is transparency. Being true to yourself is one of the most gratifying feelings, and I believe that is the beginning of true freedom. It's no secret I am a super hopeful when it comes to this thing called love. I even found the recipe to ground breaking and sustaining relationships.
Being Honest About Who You Are: I find that humans can be so deceptive and misleading. Most of the time it's out of fear, this fear stems from not being perfect. Where I am from we say " Stop Fronting!!" Just keep it real with who you are and what you want.
Grow! Grow! Grow! Never Stop Growing: We all have improvements to make within ourselves. There is this saying " That's just who I am." Why stunt your ability to be a constant better version of yourself? I am telling you once you make a decision to evolve, everything and everyone arounds you will change. Hopefully the change is for the better.
Becoming A Professional Listener: I have found that most people are not seeking feedback, they just want a listening ear. My interactions with people has shifted because of this, I truly just want to listen to the hearts of man. When I say man I am referring to mankind. Let's face it we all have our set of issues but don't have someone who can listen without judgment. Being a better listener has helped me develop stronger relationships with people.
Stop Trying To Find A YOU In Other People: This is what get us caught up in our feelings. This generation emphasizes on "matched energy." That is basically like the blind leading the blind. God made us unique individuals, so why would you want to meet another you. If it is in your heart to do certain things for someone, just do it! One thing I've learned is reciprocity is important. But don't cling so tight to it, If you feel the need to call someone, call them. Don't wait because they didn't call you, or check in on you. If you want to live and walk in excellence be it all the way through, especially with how we treat others. Even if they don't see the effort, God does and that is all that matters,
Stop Taking Things Personal: We are living in sensitive times. You can't say anything without offending someone. Grow tough skin every action, doesn't qualify for a reaction. Most of the time it's really not about you. I remember my dad used to say to me " You are so nonchalant." In hindsight that trait has worked in my favor. I have learned to take things with a grain of salt. I don't digest the words and actions of others. I just say "okay."
Avoid Disagreements/Arguments: This can be avoided through communication and also when you find yourself getting upset, find refuge in how you cope for example: take deep breathe, go for a walk, listen to soft music, go to a quiet place for prayer and or meditation. I promise these are game changers. It's better to keep a tight lip then say things to person you love out of anger.
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