It's interesting how the older you get the less fascinated you become about dating. When your in your 20's its like this one big game of who can go on the most dates, and meeting all types of personalities. After while the idea of meeting someone new after healing from a broken heart - and or just taken a break from dating can be a headache. There is the process of taking the time to get to know someone in vice versa its a Whole Job!!! clock-in clock -out.
But if you are truly seeking to meet and build with someone you have to start somewhere. And peep this.. as you grow your taste in men and women changes tremendously. For example: During unforeseen times you really get to see what people who truly made of, and how they handle with "life" happens. I can tell you during this "Pandemic" it really had me re-evaluating myself and everyone around me. Are we really practicing survival skills or break under pressure.
The other day I made a joke about how some women usually want to know the type of career a man has - just to get an idea of his income bracket. But somehow this idea is changing for me I want to know if you know how to grow your own food. So, my usual question is "do you know how to farm?" You know because my mindset is humans need to know how to be self - sufficient and live more sustainable lifestyle. Now, maybe this also has much to do with ones geographical location.The modern man vs. The man on the field, I am more interested in a man who knows how to hunt and build with his bare hands. Simultaneously, I prefer men who are prayer warriors and have active personal relationship with God. See those are major key for me, ask me 10 years ago if that was on my checklist NOT!
I say all this with love that anyone who desires to be in a committed relationship, understand how important it is take personal inventory. You know, never asking for something in someone if you are unable to have those things yourself. In short, if you want a superman make sure your supermen!!!
Super hero relationships are thing...
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